got duke nukem 3d working fine in single player using d-fend reloaded frontend.

However I can't get the network games to work.
Under establish IPX connection.
I have UDP/IP enabled.
I have 1 machine set as the client and one as the server, and I have entered the IP for the server machine in the client settings.
start network game son both machines and they just sit there trying to connect indefinitely.

Both machines can see each other and ping each other on the network.