Have you hooked up the SSD to another system to verify that it actually works?
The other option is to get an IDE to SATA adapter and use a regular SATA SSD in it.
That is what I did with my old Toshiba P-IV laptop.
I did have to disassemble the SSD and trim the SSD case for it to fit with the adapter, but it works fine. You just have to make sure that the SSD itself is small enough to fit.
The other option is to get an IDE to SATA adapter and then a SATA to m.2 adapter and use an m.2 SSD. Probably easier to fit in there, but not quite as cheap as just using an IDE to SATA adapter.
There are quite a lot of different orientation laptop IDE to SATA adapters so you just have to make sure you get one that will work in your laptop. They are pretty cheap at less that $10 a piece.