The Green Math chip definitely shouldn't work with a 386SX. Despite being PLCC it is indeed for a 386DX or 486DLC. However, the only 386DX motherboards I have ever seen that can accept the PLCC FPUs without an adapter are made by ALD.
Green Math is an OEM relabeling job. It's either USLI or IIT (I forget which), but the model name seems more consistent with IIT.
The Reveal chips are actually pretty nice, as they are just normal Fasmath chips. It's still inconclusive if they will work well at 40MHz. I once saw an earlier version of the Reveal retail packaging and it said that it worked up to 33MHz, but I would imagine if the datecode is a later one 40MHz should be fine. Cyrix did infact make 83S87 Fasmath chips that ran at 40MHz, but they seem pretty rare.
The IIT chip you have is obviously for 386DX systems, so actually you're only choice is to try the Reveal.
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