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I can't speak for the topic except every time I see that word I think of the South Park episode. 😉
As far as people with issues go....
Highly detail oriented. I've been troubleshooting my whole life so I see that all parts make a whole. Most people aren't like that and get annoyed which annoys me because their laziness involves more work for me and even worse when I'm part of a project and I'm not the one in charge so the laziness tends to bite us in the ass later. Story of my life.
Simplicity. I buy the bare minimum and furnish bare minimum. No crap sitting on cabinets or dressers. Clutter annoys me and it's extra work down the road.
Highly organized. Not OCD level or anything just that I'm known for it. So much so that if someone notices I have a couple of items out they comment on it.
Social. People annoy me and always have. Crowds stress me out and give me headaches. I watch people so I know what I need to do to avoid them or not annoy them. It took me a lot of time to learn the flowchart game when engaging in conversation. I've figured out over time the random BS conversation you need to engage in to not seem strange and at what interval. This takes ALOT of effort so most of the time I'm in "minimum effort" mode and then if I have to go "full effort" then I do so and then I'm done. i.e. Show up to the meeting, party etc for 15m act normal (aka think Dexter) and then get the hell out. I've always been confused why people do the things they do which I eventually figured out that people do this crap to give their meaningless lives meaning instead of doing anything meaningfull. Award ceremonies, Religion, Rituals, etc all convoluted BS. People do notice that I'm off but I don't give a crap. I live alone and always have. I don't feel like I'm missing anything since the alternative would be excruciating. I don't play multiplayer since I don't condone idiocy and I don't like my time wasted. Most time spent multiplayer was back in the BBS and LAN gaming days.
Anxiety - My dad takes medication for this but he doesn't like the effects so he doesn't. I haven't been diagnosed or anything but when I was a kid I would repeat actions and as an adult I catch myself doing so at times and stop myself.
Risk - I'm pretty risk adverse and take a lot of time to make the right decision which most people do not do. People comment on this. I would comment back but then I wouldn't have very nice things to say heh. So no sports or crazy athletic activities (Just standard running and walking) . I do make quick decisions when it doesn't matter so I'm not like that guy on the Good Place.
I've been the same way since I was a kid and I'm not young but still have a lot of years left assuming I don't get hit by a bus.
Detail,Simplicity likely came from my upbringing since I didn't have much growing up and I'm a loner so spent a lot of time reading and figuring things out
Anxiety,Social issues are both nature and nurture since I'm sure there is a genetic component but also I moved around a lot and parents didn't do much with me for socialization since they both worked. My younger brother and sister don't have these issues but they never moved around a lot and I was the test case so they knew what to do with them.
All this to say that I don't think I'm much different than anyone else we are all messed up in different ways. It's the "normal" people you have to watch out for.