I don't know how to get this out without seeming self centered, or an attention nut, or something.... Ive been trying to figure […]
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I don't know how to get this out without seeming self centered, or an attention nut, or something.... Ive been trying to figure out how to do so ever since realizing it days ago, so Ive stayed silent rather than making this a worse place...
I still don't know if this is the best way to do it, but I wanted to explain and also apologize.
This is not an excuse, my behaviour hasn't been so good and that's my fault. I used to be like a steel trap for computer knowledge and information, but I got something called shy-drager and also MSA about 9 years ago, which is distantly similar to alzheimer's, but not the same. The stats say that 80% of people with this die by 10th year, and the people that have it wind up in a nursing home far before that from lack of being able to function physically and mentally. I am housebound more or less, but I take most of care of myself, with some help from a home care worker. I am and always have been fiercely independent and this kind of mental and memory degradation is infuriating me and making me go through all kinds of emotional hurt. Put simply, I don't remember things correctly anymore, get confused, and remember things outright wrong sometimes, and lately it's been more and more often it happens.
This is not an excuse for my mood here, simply the reason I was acting out so harshly. I am sorry, I should not have allowed my anger and frustration out on people who had nothing to do with it, and honestly I am terrified of this whole process. I had made a name for myself in this industry despite being female by always remembering everything perfectly, and learning and retaining so much that I could not be passed off as some woman instead of a very good and knowledgeable PC tech.
I hope those that I went off on can find it in their heart to forgive me, and maybe place themselves in my shoes for long enough to see why I behaved so badly about this - it was out of fear of my own mental degradation, not hostility toward anyone.