The only 440GX I have is a Slot 2 system, so I cannot test Tualatin cpu's on that one.
Most 440BX will accept the Tualatin Celeron, with the correct adapter. They might fuss at boot about an incorrectly identified cpu,but will boot either way.
Running the BX out of spec at 133 and stressing the VRMs to accommodate the 1,4/512 is however not always possible. I am lucky to have an Asus P3-BF which is one of the fastest boards for Tualatin if oc'd at 133.
If you absolutely need more than 1GB, these are options I was able to test myself: Compaq AP500 (Rdram!), Supermicro P3TDE6 (4GB ram, but AGP issues), Aopen Ax34 (fastest Via694X I have seen), Asus P3B-F.