I wonder what language you are reading, or if you look at what happens here, or if you read anything at all.
Where does anyone say she'll help for money only?
What part of "This project is about correct emulation, _frontends_ are about usability" didn't you understand? As long as the emulation isn't good enough, the authors of DOSBox choose to leave usability issues to other volunteers (who do a great job at that).
And what does all that have to do with inactive projects? DOSBox is highly active, people submit amazing new developments every month, volunteers create ready-to-use binaries with those enhancements - I don't get what you want to say.
And why is it so difficult to read the README? If you ask here, you have to search the forums - and read. If you don't find your answer, you are going to ask - and read again. So there is no way around the "reading" part. Why on earth must other people repeat things for you that have been written countless times? People who show that they respect the voluntary work of the people in here by reading/searching, and only asking after that are helped with a great amount of patience.
Did you notice the word "voluntary" somewhere in my reply? I'm speaking about tens, if not hundreds of people helping out, each one with what he or she knows. Some people call it a community, and yes, in order to get something from a community, you have to play by their rules, just as it is in real life. Nowhere in life you are getting a free lunch. Is just a tiny bit of RESPECT for the time and work of others already too much? That's all you need to show, really.
BTW, if you dislike the usabliity, go ahead and send patches. I myself do that all the time - I dislike something in DOSBox, fix it and send a patch. If you don't know how to program, get someone else to do it. You probably know this is easier with "pretty please?" and "Oh, I offer to write some documentation/translation/... in return" instead of "you, stupid prick, read my mind and do what I think". You think basic social skills are missing here? Sure, I clearly see some people with a lack.