Having too little memory in Windows 3.1 is worse than having slow memory, I think.
Windows 3.x needs contiguous memory to properly work.
Windows 3.1 on a 10 MHz 286 with a humble 1 MB RAM:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zc2fVXozxwU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=URktiHd30Qo
Bus and CPU run at 10 MHz (as selected in CMOS Setup). 1 MB is a joke, of course. 2 or 4 MB or more would allow business use, though.
I had done the upgrade, but a fellow Tower AT owner asked me to keep the original state of the CPU board intact (which I did).
I'll maybe add a dedicated ISA memory board in the future, haven't decided yet.
PS: Back in the 90s, my 12 MHz 286 PC had 70ns SIMMs installed (like common in 386/486 PCs).
100ns 0r 120ns were considered museum's pieces by then. An XT-era legacy.
Anyway, just sayin'.
Edit: I probably shouldn't say anything anymore, but..
The RAM ratings for the card do merely correlate with the AT/USA bus speed, not the CPU speed.
If the ISA slot runs at 6 to 8 MHz, the ancienr 120ns RAMs can still work.
It's simply that the manual is so old. It probably makes the assumption that both CPU and bus speed are the same.
Which used to be in the days of the IBM PC/AT Model 5170 (slow timings!). It came in merely two speeds, 6 and 8 MHz. No higher end version was released afterwards, as far as I know. *Maybe* that's also a contributor as to why ISA specs settled on ~8 MHz finally.
Anyway, these are just my two cents. Even if there were timing issues, wait states could be added for stability.
Though personally, I'd favor slow timings if they'd allow for zero wait state operation.
That being said, performance is highly individual.
I thus recommend to simply try things out yourself and see if performance is good enough. If the bus isn't being overclocked, no harm is done to the card, anyway. 🤷♂️
If possible, use the AST as an XMS or EMS card only. That way, merely those programs will access the card who have a real need for further memory.
Little games will use memory below 1 MB and run via fast, chipset controlled memory.
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