haha yeah that's what I was worried about. I've done that a time or two myself 🤣
Based on the pinouts.ru site, I was originally thinking that the power supply I bought was for a newer version of this motherboard. It has the 13 pin connector which connects perfectly, and I figured the side connector is the same voltage and number of pins but different connector size.
However, i'm looking at this video of a Vectra with the same exact processor, and those 6 pins actually go to a ribbon cable attached to the front panel.
https://youtu.be/4Y8XdZqrRw4?t=877
That's the exact position of the 6 pin connector on mine (you can see a couple of those components between the two have been moved from one revision of this motherboard to the next (not sure what those yellow things are):
Maybe that 6 pin "PS2" molex is just not used on my motherboard - maybe it was for a very similar motherboard that just had a 3.3v CPU 3.3v and 3.45v 486 Motherboards
That would answer the question as to where to connect the power/reset cables connectors - i'll have to experiment with those to see what's what, unless there's a manual out there that lists out that pinout.