The ALi1429 was a hybrid 386/486 chipset. It's pretty advanced for a 386. I owned one some time ago, and it was definitely not slow. Most of the small formfactor 386DX boards are roughly the same speed. You will only see small performance benefits by nitpicking about your board (I like to nitpick).
If you don't want to change the CPU, there is definitely nothing wrong with a surface mount 386. The 386 boards from 1993+ were super reliable and really hard to kill. Even if it got bad solder joints, you could still repair it with the right tools.
I wonder if the MX board you are looking at is an Octek Jaguar V. That was a pretty common board, and somewhat decent. I believe there is a thread with speedsys benchmarks that has an MX board in there somewhere. The results seemed normal for a 386. However, I don't know how much memory those MX boards can cache. If you just want 8MB it's totally fine.
Post your 386 Speedsys results here
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