1) Try another driver, gcdrom.sys as example (plus this driver support SATA devices in DOS). If I remember correctly, this driver has /C switch.
So, in config .sys you have something like
device=gcdrom.sys /d:mscd000 /c1
device=gcdrom.sys /d:macd001 /c2
c1, c2 - IDE channels with cd-drives...
Then - mscdex with /d and /l switches...
2) Try /p switch with oakcdrom.sys.
Asus P4P800 SE/Pentium4 3.2E/2 Gb DDR400B,
Radeon HD3850 Agp (Sapphire), Catalyst 14.4 (XpProSp3).
Voodoo2 12 MB SLI, Win2k drivers 1.02.00 (XpProSp3).