for more memory, you will be limited pretty heavily.
You will need a 16bit ISA ram expansion card, and will hit the 286's maximum memory ceiling at 16mb. The 286 architecture cannot "properly" exit protected mode, which means anything above 1mb will put the CPU out of real mode. Programmers of the time made use of an undocumented "Feature" of the CPU's LOADALL instruction to transition the processor to 'unreal mode' from protected mode.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unreal_mode
Some DOS programs get uppity if they are not in genuine, bonafide real mode.
That said, your options for RAM expansion will be things like the BocaRAM/AT Plus, Intel AboveBoard Plus, Emulex persyst, AST RAMPage 286, AST RAMPage Plus, or something similar.
You *could* drop a lo-tech 2mb EMS in there, but.... thats 8 bit, and EMS only. Would not get you the same kind of experience.
I'd go with that last AST RAMPage Plus, myself. Nice 30pin simm slots.