ArbysTPossum wrote on 2025-07-17, 14:59:
Some people are chronically online, others are trying to abandon it entirely.
i think its more - "almost everyone, especailly those who grew up with smartphones, is chronically online and a very small minority are trying to control it or move away" 😀
I'm rambling a bit. But I'd personally like people to go back to smaller, tighter communities while maintaining broad communication and dissemination of information.
this is the world we evolved in, living tribally and occasionally encountering others and learning more. then living in "civilisation" and being concerned with the often low population places you dwelled in and occasionally getting news from afar. then it became more populous, living in big cities and then came postal services and telegraphy, radio and tv and slowly more and more of the rest of the world was known. and now, it seems that every personal tragedy is filmed and spreads through social media, every world event is filtered through varying political interpretations and then suddenly drops out to make rooms for the next event, shorter cycles meaning the actual truths, details and causes are lost - and just the images remain.
badmojo wrote on Yesterday, 01:22:
Trashbytes wrote on 2025-07-17, 15:10:
Im going to be honest here, I was far happier before I had access to all the evil shit occurring around me both locally or internationally, knowing that its occuring doesn't make my day any better and really if it was actually important enough the News would report it, so I was never out of the loop.
Same boat here. Up until recently I was somewhat addicted to news and had several sources that I'd read and cross reference multiple times a day. A certain event about 6 months ago left me really upset and made me realise how bad this influx of bad news was for my mental health, so I went cold turkey and it's been great. Initially it felt strange to be out of the loop but local things that actually impact me still filter through one way or another.
it seems counterintuitive that not knowing something is better, choosing ignorance seems "wrong" but actually its closer to our historical reality and more practically its living within our sphere of influence. It may even be better when we help out in small ways locally and then the next person does the same and so on, it spreads out it can elevate all. We cannot actually do much about the rest of the world as an individual and the way in which events are portrayed through media, whether big news corp or people with smartphones, is always skewed and incomplete. Often the news is just "here is a horrible thing" that you had no realistic influence over and no power to prevent and then, without deep explanation, trying to get cameras in front of crying people (or worse, dying people) and then it moves on.