What sort of motherboard are we talking about here?
If it's a unicorn and you're inexperienced in soldering I fully agree: don't run the risk.
But if it's an otherwise unremarkable board (this sounds like a pretty generic Via 693A / 694X thing), and you can afford to lose it if you mess up, it might well be a good learning project. ISA slots aren't that hard - they're just basic through-hole objects with decent pitch between the pins. It would only get challenging if you need to add additional SMD components. That requires more skill & equipment - and is another reason to tell us exactly which board it is and take a good photograph of the area around the slot.
Best-case you would only need to do the slot. Worst-case it would be a board with a chipset without native ISA support that would require soldering a PCI-ISA bridge chip as well as support logic and buffers...
One thing you can do in any case is order a dirt-cheap soldering kit from AliExpress just to get the feel. Anything will do, a simple digital clock kit has soldering of similar level of difficulty.