i've had this running again with idleclose=10 and all seems well. i installed the v0.20b21 george breese pci latency patch on top of the 4in1 v4.35 drivers.
the only suggestion i'd have at this point is to make the installer more granular in regard to choosing between fm and mpu401 port trapping. i have use cases for the current options of fm-only and fm + mpu401 for my laptop with a wretched ess maestro 2e or my wavetable isa cards without a ymf262 (or even a hardware opl3). by far my biggest use case is mpu401-only for use with windows softsynths and virtual midi loopback cables (accomplished prior with vdmsound granularity). it would be nice to have this option and be able to banish the cludge that is vdmsound 9x entirely.