Intel486dx33 wrote:So I am going to use this just as a DOS game box.
What CPU should I use
It really depends on what period of DOS games you want to play on your system. If you will be satisfied with anything pre '95, then a 486DX/50 is more than sufficient. If however you plan to play any last true DOS era games at all (around '96-'98) like Quake, Tomb Raider, Fallout etc. then the better choice for CPU is AMD K6 or Intel 233Mhz. Those faster CPUs also offer you flexibility since you can always slow them down through either software or disabling cache from motherboards BIOS and thus getting the same performance as a 486 (or even slower). But the majority of older DOS games will be just fine on either of your 486 CPUs.
So it's simplicity vs. flexibility. No wrong answer there only matter of taste.
4-8Mb is more than enough for DOS. If you plan to use one of the 200+ MHz CPUs and Win95/98 then 16-32Mb would be justified. But older DOS games don't ever really need that much.
And what graphics card ? I can use ISA or PCI
2D DOS games are generally not very GPU heavy so with a 486 almost any graphic card (PCI or ISA) ranging from 512kb to 2mb (or more) RAM memory will do. However if your motherboard has PCI slots it's wise to use a PCI card there since they are slightly faster than ISA cards.
Personally, I'd build a 486 system using that UMC mobo of yours, with S3 Trio 64 PCI and 8mb of RAM. And of course the sound card of your choice.