I have a very similar configuration in a 486 (non PNP EISA) I'm recently working on:
- 3com Etherlink III (3c509) ISA
- Adaptec 1540CP (same as yours, minus the floppy controller if I remember correctly)
- SB 32 PNP (CT3670)
Actually two of these cards can be used as non-PNP cards. 3com has a configuration utility software to set the PNP off, and assign permanent resources to the card. You can do the same on Adaptec with switches and its BIOS utility.
This makes your SB the only thing to worry about, and Creative PNP utility will take care of that from your autoexac.bat or cobfig.sys without a fuss.
Mine works without an issue both in DOS and Windows 3.11 at the moment.
PS: I write that down from my memory, I'll check for any further info when I get back home. I also can help (if I can) with your more specific questions about this trio.
GA-6VTXE PIII 1.4+512MB
Geforce4 Ti 4200 64MB
Diamond Monster 3D 12MB SLI
SB AWE64 PNP+32MB
120GB IDE Samsung/80GB IDE Seagate/146GB SCSI Compaq/73GB SCSI IBM
Adaptec AHA29160
3com 3C905B-TX
Gotek+CF Reader
MSDOS 6.22+Win 3.11/95 OSR2.1/98SE/ME/2000