UCyborg wrote on 2025-12-22, 21:35:
No, no. It's fine. But there surely will be better times again.
Not seldomly, as the saying goes, it has to get worse before it gets better again.
Maybe it just needs a positive event such as another moon landing,
a second space station or a new technology (hyper loop?) that inspires people to look positively into the future.
The best we can do, I guess, is trying to continue to stay around and won't let negativity of others take over everything.
(I don't mean your post here, in my opinion your statement was true after all.
And knowing the truth is important to be able make a change for the better.
So it's all good. We just must try to also see the bright side of life, when there really is.
If we're happy, we're able to uplift and motivate others too.)
zyzzle wrote on 2025-12-24, 07:26:
People behave well for about 5-10 days around Christmas, and then it's more of the same the rest of the year.
In some families it's other way round, even.
They haven't really seen each others during year and then they're forced being together and feel the pressure to pretend to be happy.
Then it's inadvertible that they will see each other's flaws and shortcomings and that all the negative feelings they held back over the year do surface.
That's why I'd recommend to take it easy and to not set the bar of expectations too high.
The more people want to have a "perfect christmas", the less happy is the outcome.
Sometimes having zero expectations (modest expectations) and letting develop things naturally on their own can lead to a peaceful holiday.
Merry Christmas, everyone. ^^ 🎄
PS: Kind soul that you're reading this: When feeling down at year-end festival, please remember that you're not alone.
There are many others out there that feel similar in these days and that the sun will shine for you again. 🌠
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