With CL=3 it is meant setting the RAM timings a bit slower. That is done in the BIOS -> CHIPSET FEATURES SETUP -> "SDRAM CAS Latency Time".
While at it I'd also set "SDRAM RAS to CAS Delay" and "SDRAM RAS Precharge Time" to the highest possible value (at least for the time of testing higher FSB clocks).
That way slower specc'ed RAM COULD run at a higher frequency. But there's no guarantee.
It would help if you could post a picture of your RAM (if you haven't already, sorry I didn't read the whole thread). Then someone here could tell what speed it should run well on or if you'd need other RAM for 133MHz.
For setting the FSB:
As I understand it you already proved that setting the FSB to 112MHz and 124MHz worked in general (stability may be another point). That's good.
Did you also try it with the new CPU already? Does 133MHz work with that?
I don't know CPUFSB and it's FSB options, but the obstacle I see is that you/CPUFSB may operate in the upper half of the FSB table in the clock gens datasheet (that's where FS3=0 / chap. 6-2).
Problem here is that there's also a 133MHz option but with that you overclock the PCI bus to 44.33MHz. That COULD also be a reason the system get's unstable (besides that the BX chipset itself or it's implementation on the mainboard may not like it).
Anyway, it would be better to use the second half of the FSB table, that's where 133MHz FSB correlate to 33MHz PCI which is fully in spec.
If CPUFSB can't do that then it should be possible to use softFSB with an own dll instead.
softFSB as is (at least the versoin I'm looking at) doesn't have a config file for your clock generator, yet.
But it gives the possibility to make own dlls. Unfortunately this is a bit fiddly to use but as soon as you understand how it is working it should be no big problem.
That way all possible FSB settings of the clock gen can be mapped to a setting in softFSB, which in turn you could test with you HW setup.
In general, it is important that softFSB knows how to speak to you clock gen (that is: what clock gen you have). The type of your mainboard isn't of interest. That's what myne wanted to tell you.
softFSB doesn't start on my working machine, but if I find some time I can have a look into it on an older machine if you want to try.
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