I suggest you follow all the suggestions brought forth in the other thread you created rather than creating multiple threads for the same problem. If you are unwilling to obtain a multimeter and to check your BIOS image with MODBIN, I think you will find few people willing to continue to assist. Use UNIFLASH to save an image of your BIOS.
For posting on other forums - I think you will find the vogons forum to have the most responsive user group. The problem you are experiencing is relatively straight forward.
The same mouse format could come with PS/2 support-only, or serial-only, or both. It can be difficult to distinguish. Best to avoid ps/2-to-serial adapters at this point. Obtain a regular serial-only mouse. Do not use Windows as your basis to establish if a mouse is working. Use MOUSE.COM for DOS, which contains PS/2 and serial drivers, in conjunction with TEST.EXE. This is a more effective means of testing. Sometimes serial mouse or ps/2 mouse drivers will not be auto loaded in Windows depending on what the install condition was like.
Also, there are two standard pin-outs for serial cable headers that I am aware of. SiS and UMC-based PCI boards tend to use different ones. Use a multi-meter to determine where the pins are going. $5 multimeters often don't have the quick "beep" setting to check for continuity, but you can still use the resistence setting. Usually a 0-2 ohm readout indicates a continuous run of conductor. BUY A MULTIMETER!
And one more thing, BUY A MULTIMETER.
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